When someone loves you

The more someone loves you, the more s/he loves themself. You more fulfilling her or his desires. You do, you act, you behave, you dress, you talk, you excite, you tempt the way s/he likes. So, s/he doesn't love you personally. S/he loves her or his manifested desires in such way, you display them. But, when you are not capable to project these imaginations anymore their love will be gone. Nowadays people don't love the other person only for her or his own sake. No, people's ego love the treat that reflecting to it. For example, a little woman who scares of a flicker of a leaf desires safety and security. When she meats a man who can fulfill this desire she is falling in love with him. She doesn't love the man. Her ego loves the fact that one of its main desire is being fulfilled. If the man will change by time and he is not capable anymore to accomplish the woman's wish on this subject the love will be gone too. Why so many partnership is breaking up nowadays so fast? Because you people are changing so fast. Your desires comes and go with the tide and your partner can't follow this hectic emotional world you have. That's how they are programming emotional wrecks for their own purpose. Puppetmaster needs cripples, to whose s/he can throw some breadcrumbs to make them happy, temporarily, for some favour in exchange, of course. These people are never gonna be able to settle down and have a family and raise them properly. They are chasing their own desires, meanwhile they are dreaming of illusions. Illusions that one day they will find the real one. They can't see that their own ego what is making them unhappy and unable to find a partner. because there is no such a person who can change so fast and of course to the coveted direction without forecast. In contradiction, that's why our grandpas can live in peace together so long. Provided that they are not surrounded by modern electronics, not using internet, Fakebook, not watching telly, etc. I told you the biggest challenge is to defeat and control your own ego, not an other human. Your ego is the real demolisher of your life.

When you will take the control back from your own ego over life and stop chasing illusions, created by it?