Worrying about your child is NOT love

When you are worrying about your child is NOT love. You would like to present this as a sign of love. But in reality is a fear from pain. You are afraid of that you will get a bad news, you will be a witness of a failure, you will be a victim of social stigmatizing. So, when you are worrying about your child because s/he is not at home at the agreed time, when you are worrying on an important event how s/he will perform, when you are worrying about what the society will think or say that s/he is a pothead than you actually fear of pain the certain object will cause to you. This is the fear from unbearable. The fear that you won't be able to handle the consequences. So, this is actually shows you that you are still not sure of yourself. Than you certainly giving too much credit to your earthly attachments, to your social position, to your reflection in others mind. That means your ego is bigger than your love yet and it making a fool out of you. Because you've believed for now you are not selfish. All the parents are selfish who actually worrying about their child.