How to attract your partner again?

I was talking about love in my previous post. I pointed out that love is nothing, but a positive energy flowing around us, what your subconscious can sense and you feel and know this is good. This is in harmony with the purpose of Life. But, what happens when a man or a woman can't feel this positive energy flowing anymore in a relationship? They start to feel they are not important anymore and they start looking for another partner. This is the reason when a relationship got into a certain route and a partner doesn't feel love anymore that sooner or later s/he will flirting with the thought s/he might need to find someone else. Not because you are not the same great person. No. S/he just can't feel the effect of positive energy, so called love, anymore. So, if you want your wo/man back forget your ego and show some interest to her or him, do something for your partner, you know it will make her or him happy, produces some endorphin. A man should do some heroic act and she can feel the same worry like that ancient woman who was waiting for her hunter to return in safe. A woman should show some support in hard times that the hunter can feel it's worth it to come home in safe. Nowadays, lot of individuals are busy with his or her own shitty ego and wants, and needs, and wish the world should spin only around her or him. Meanwhile you are so damn selfish how can you expect someone will show some interest to you and will love you? You know what? You already love yourself. It's enough. Don't be a bigamist. Or if you seeking for love than stop loving yourself. But, don't confuse love with attention-seeking. Love is a selfless act to help flow to the positive energy in the world. If you are not capable of doing this you just want somebody around you to worship you, to admire you, to ape you than that's not love. If you are a little self-centered sickness- and huffish package, who complain that the world is not trying to make her happy than do not be surprised you are loosing your partner!

So, how you can attract someone or your partner again? I have to quote the second commandment from the Bible: "Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself." If you help to the positive energy to flow unhinderedly through you, than you will attract whoever you want. Because humans are still feeling the importance of positive energy in their subconscious mind. So, do something selflessly for your partner! For example if your partner likes to do something you don't really do than fuck it, go with it! Go with him fishing, try to find the good side of that activity and say to your ego that shut a fuck up! Enjoy the landscape, the peace, the silence, whatever and share his joy. Believe me! You will get his attention straight away. If your baby loves to go to shopping go with her. Watch her in the fitting room, changing the clothes she wants to buy. Think she's doing a private striptease to you and have fun. Because if you do good to someone else you will get it back. And how do you know you are doing the good thing? According to prophet Muhammad good deed is, which makes a happy smile on others face.