How to attract your partner again?

I was talking about love in my previous post. I pointed out that love is nothing, but a positive energy flowing around us, what your subconscious can sense and you feel and know this is good. This is in harmony with the purpose of Life. But, what happens when a man or a woman can't feel this positive energy flowing anymore in a relationship? They start to feel they are not important anymore and they start looking for another partner. This is the reason when a relationship got into a certain route and a partner doesn't feel love anymore that sooner or later s/he will flirting with the thought s/he might need to find someone else. Not because you are not the same great person. No. S/he just can't feel the effect of positive energy, so called love, anymore. So, if you want your wo/man back forget your ego and show some interest to her or him, do something for your partner, you know it will make her or him happy, produces some endorphin. A man should do some heroic act and she can feel the same worry like that ancient woman who was waiting for her hunter to return in safe. A woman should show some support in hard times that the hunter can feel it's worth it to come home in safe. Nowadays, lot of individuals are busy with his or her own shitty ego and wants, and needs, and wish the world should spin only around her or him. Meanwhile you are so damn selfish how can you expect someone will show some interest to you and will love you? You know what? You already love yourself. It's enough. Don't be a bigamist. Or if you seeking for love than stop loving yourself. But, don't confuse love with attention-seeking. Love is a selfless act to help flow to the positive energy in the world. If you are not capable of doing this you just want somebody around you to worship you, to admire you, to ape you than that's not love. If you are a little self-centered sickness- and huffish package, who complain that the world is not trying to make her happy than do not be surprised you are loosing your partner!

So, how you can attract someone or your partner again? I have to quote the second commandment from the Bible: "Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself." If you help to the positive energy to flow unhinderedly through you, than you will attract whoever you want. Because humans are still feeling the importance of positive energy in their subconscious mind. So, do something selflessly for your partner! For example if your partner likes to do something you don't really do than fuck it, go with it! Go with him fishing, try to find the good side of that activity and say to your ego that shut a fuck up! Enjoy the landscape, the peace, the silence, whatever and share his joy. Believe me! You will get his attention straight away. If your baby loves to go to shopping go with her. Watch her in the fitting room, changing the clothes she wants to buy. Think she's doing a private striptease to you and have fun. Because if you do good to someone else you will get it back. And how do you know you are doing the good thing? According to prophet Muhammad good deed is, which makes a happy smile on others face.

Why we are seeking company and love so much?

In ancient time, when caveman was a lonely survivor life was way much tougher than now. Just imagine yourself you are on a plain field, is getting dark, everything is wet, you are not able to light a fire with your flint, you are shivering, there is no cover and you hear the weird sounds of a whole bunch of animals, you don't know. Which one is dangerous. Which one is going to kill you during the night. Some of them are lonely predators. Some are forming hordes, like baboons. Even a chimp is capable to rip off a human's arm. Can you feel that urge to shit yourself? Probably early man seen apes, monkeys and all kind a phytophagous that when they have company they can defeat predators with a greater success. So, when you were rambling across the continent alone and finally met with your kind that was a reliefing moment. You figured company means a bigger chance to survive. And because human beings are emotionally advanced creatures, sooner or later you were creating bonds with other members in the group. Friends, hunter mates and a female. So, first human formed groups for benefits, but being a member of the group created emotional bonds between the members of the group. Early humans might seen a moment when females of some hunters came to us after returning from a big and dangerous hunt and greeting them, showing worry. Than the lonely hunters felt: Hm, that's must be good. So you have had the needs for love. When you finally found a woman for you you felt if I do something which makes her happy it lights a very good feeling inside me as well. So, giving love is the best. It has so much positive energy that you become capable of doing things you never imagined. Actually love itself is a positive energy. That's why love is also acts as a very addictive emotional drug. You feel the positive energy flowing towards you, towards your beloved ones or around you and your subconscious knows this is good. Love can transform the world completely. And once you've tasted you always want to feel it. That's why humans are constantly seeking for love.

Only a task

I've already wrote about problems, that they exist only till you pay attantion to them and they are as big as much you make them. Well, I have to be more precise, because the first part of the statement is misunderstandable. It doesn't mean you have to be a careless figure. It requires a different mindset. When you say you have a problem that sounds you can't handle what you've got. You think this is over your skills and capability. Thus you determinate and restrict your mind that you really can't do that and the specific thing get to the point when it will overgrow you. So, the correct name is for such bumpy situations or people in your life is TASK. I've got a task. Not a problem. Only a task, I have to solve it. And no worries, you always get just as much as you can solve, believe it or not. So, it might seem a little bit difficult or tricky to solve, handle or outcome, but that's the purpose of life. To always learn new things, to develop, to become more. First you may get it from the wrong side. Than the task will disappear for a while in your life and you will get it again later on when you look more grewn to the task. It can be also a situation that you getting the same task over and over again till you finally move your ass and come up with the right solution. And the less you want to move your ass, or actually your brain, the more you get such task in your life. Those person who constantly moaning about one specific thing in their life - or maybe about a buncha - they will be bombed with millions of that kinda task. Till they don't figure out the problem is their own idiot mindset. Actually the first part of the statement is correct in an other way. If you don't pay attantion, which actually means, you don't make a problem out of the situation then it will vanish. I tell you an example, if you constantly moaning about people in the traffic how stupid they are, you will get thousand of them every single day. Just to teaxh you for patient and to help you realize YOU are the idiot. So, say it again loud: it is only a task.

Are you ready to solve it? Are you ready to learn new knack? Are you willing to become more?

Or you are just an other moaning incompetent, gutless prick with no balls??? Your call.