Western vs Hungarian folk tales

There are huge differences between western tales and Hungarian folk tales. Why this is so important? Because this is the story, the teaching you put your children in bed with and you defining his or her foundation of thinking. Western tales are mostly speaking about violence. The main character leaves or gives up his family for some stranger or new society, thinks that's gonna be better than his own blood. If they have a family! Lots of time even they have some disability or at least the community, they live in, look upon it as a disability. All in all the whole tale is just so fucked up and twisted out. Plus there is no teaching or some kind of good conclusion.

In contradiction, Hungarian folk tales are always start with a loving family. The main character is going out to help for his family or to try his luck. He finds helpers, friends. Mostly from animal kingdom. So nature is his ally. Sometimes nature poses a test, but only to form the main character to a better person. Plus you see many times that if you join forces even the impossible is possible. If there are ancient tales, because I don't know all of them, in western world where the main character is not an orphan, no violence and the guy does not want to change his family (if he has one) for a useless princess or for some freak strangers along the way, than mea culpa. But how you can expect from children in western civilization that they will become a better generation when they are raised on such twisted stories. If the tales do not talk about prince and princess than they are mostly horror stories, like Little Red Riding Hood, Hans and Gretel, threatening dragons, monsters, man eating sirens, witches, etc.  Everybody is your enemy. Even your own family. If you have one. Get over the challenges in life with force, aggression and violence. And so on. What about the one good turn deserves an other?

Here is what I'm talking:

A tale from western world

A tale from Hungary

From which you can learn more? From which you can learn that your family is important, you need friends in life, life sometimes will test you, you must be kind to Nature and others to be treaten well too, join forces if your task or your opponent is too much for only you to taken care of? Which one is more human-oriented and kind? Which one reminds you to the finest guru's teaching, what Dalai Lama said about life?

And you still wondering why western civilization is so fucked up???

The way to be successful

You need three things. We can say these things are the trinity of being successful. First you need the will to start the particular object. How you can persuade yourself to do that? Start with a tiny step. With such a tiny step that you know you are able to do three times more. Than it will look easy and you will get into the thing with ease. Then you need the second principle: gradualism. To keep up whatever you doing you must be gradual. Don't take too much or more you have set up for that day. But set a goal for every day. Aim the next step with every day. Than the third rule. You have to be consistent. No matter there are frogs raining from the clouds you have to do the aimed portion of the job for the day. And because the task is ridiciously easy and just a tiny bit you will be done in a very short time. Thus, the result will make you happy. You will be glad you've done that. This will give you a boost on those hard days to keep goin' on. March forward. Do not let yourself detour from your goal. Even if a loved one asks you to do something else. They will understand how important is this for you. Plus, because the daily portion of the object is so little, they will see it doesn't take too much time, so they can wait until the end of it. This is the key to being successful in life. Volition, Gradualism, Consistency.

What is today's task? What is your aim for today? Have you done yet?

Problems

Your problems are exist as long as you create them. Your problems are as big as much you care of them. The moment you stop creating and feeding your problems by visualizing them in the unknown and not existing future they will disappear. The moment you let the future go and not thinking about the non-existing future your life is going to become clear. Your problems are falling apart, because there is no existing dimension for them in your mind anymore. What creates your problems? Your destructive thoughts. Whether they are concern, hate, anger, etc. They are the creator of your problems and the frame of your own torcher device. So, forget about your past. You can't change it. You can only learn from it. That's why I said history education is bad. At least as they do it at the present and what they are focusing on. They only generate hate between nations. Your future is not exist. Actually there is no future at all. I mean a static one. Obviously if you don't let your annoying thoughts go away you justify yourself by determinating your future. Then you can say: " You see, I was right." But, if you clear the future up from your mind and live in the present you can always change it. So, stop chewing on the past and forget to think about the next bite. Focus on the present bite of your life. The moment you are able to still your mind you are able to think clearly and solve your problem. Gather the facts and knowledge you need to make a decision. Accept the worst case scenario, then let it go. After all do the most you can do in that case NOW than forget it. Go to sleep and say to your mind shut the fuck up, I did the best, now leave me alone.
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